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When you look back on your tenage years you probably just think of the fun and jovial memories I mean they are a far cry from your 9-5 day job and all the ‘adult’ responsibilities, after all you could be young and reckless. True but if you remember back they were also some of the hardest years you’ve gone through. Your body, views and the world all changing and developing at a faster pace than is possible to keep up with. Huge dramas that now seem meaningless were detrimental to your day, week or event month, they could ruin friendships and they could easily make you feel like your world was crumbiling around you. I wanted to write a letter to my teenage self so that if I could let 13, 16 or even 18 year old me know it’s a bumpy road but its a journey to be treasured.

Dear 13 year Kenzie

Congratulations on becoming a teenager, it’s about to get a bit weird from here on in and in 10 years from now at 23 you will struggle to remeber exactly what it was to be 13. MSN is huge, that is groundbreaking and plugging in your internet by your phone line wont last forever and Sims will be a past time you wish you had time for. Odd huh well don’t worry though being able to chat to anyone at anytime and anywhere is easier than ever and social media will in 10 years be the world that consumes us all so just be carefull not to get too sucked in. It’s almost the time where you opt to wear makeup and become a little uncomfortable with your body and looks, that is totally OK but if you could plase not make your eyebows almost non existent, future you would be greatfull as shes had to get them tattooed thanks to your cleave ideas and trying to keep up with trends. That orange dream matte mousse is also terrible and if you do decide to still go ahead and not listen because of course you know best then plase blend it into your jawline in years to come you will write about beauty and know it was a huge makeup mishap.

Dear 16 Kenzie

Wow what a 3 years it has been, you’ve had your first real relationship and it’s left you in a bad place. These will be your darkest days and I know nothing I nor anyone would say could convince you that right now you have any worth in this world. You will get through it I promise though the tunnel is dark and your mind is struggling to process such adult and complex problems that an escape route is hard to find. You here will beome the epitomy of young and reckless and will almost alienate all the people who care about you. But your upcoming girls holdiay will change everything. The trust mum and dad instill in you is pivotal and finding that escape route will litrally save your life . You will go with your friends end up somehow meeting the love of your life, this will make evey day and year from here on in diffrent to what your path could have been. Word of warning though, fishbowls that taste of medicine will make you sick and you will be bold and think parting in the street in a leotard is cool! You also right now have no body worries which is amazing try and keep it that way and take care of yourself the world you grow up in is consumed by media and image and it is a hard thing to block out.

Dear 18 year old Kenzie

5 years have passed an it has become even more intense, you can drive and you got into university on your bithday a huge feat as the year before you had failed all exams even after a retake and endless effort, you would not have though this possible. It’s OK though you can accept being dyslexic it is not there to make you less able it is only a hurdle and you will learn that being able to get over that hurdle is a lot more rewarding. You’ve traveled up and down the country for the last year and a bit and you’ve managed to keep a long distance relationship going strong, I told you that holiday would change everything and definatly for good, I am glad you finally let your guard down. It is time to pack up your life and take those big adult steps and head off to Sheffield to enjoy university and please do enjoy it. It will go past so quickly and you will spend eveyday wishing you could still have an afternoon nap, drink 4 days in a row and eat junk and have no one judge you not even yourself. If I say one thing it is that you will here carve the opportuitues that have got you to today, you will travel to amazing places and that little old social media world will be your outlet, you will work with and meet amaizng peopple and you will have a unique platform to expess yourself and it will create oppotunities you never thought possible. Just be bold, brave and take it with both hands.

This world will not come without chanllenges and your health will hold you back you have a few tough years ahead but if you take it with a pinch of salt it will be just one of those things after all is done. You will continute to be a worrier a trait you’ve now become very familiar with and you must not let this anxiety rule you, though sometimes I know giving into it is the only way. All I can say is you will finish university with a fantastic degree, surround by new and some old faces who have supported you along the way, the dramas of the past are gone and your friends will grow up too, I mean some are married and have kids now. You have neither yet, don’t worry or painic yourself too much. You do own a house though and at 23 you will be proud of how far you’ve come in those 10 years, 7 of them spent with that guy you happend to meet on that girls holiday.

A whirlwind but one that has got me to where I am now, I am proud but sad a little too I guess. All the little experiences make you who you are but the realisation of things that could have been or were not meant to be can make you think of how things could have planned out. It’s hard not to dwell on some things but I am genuinly so thankful for where I am right now every hurdle, oppotruity take or lost is how it was meant to be and only I can change today, tomorrow or my future.

 

If you could give your teenage self any advice what would it be?

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21 Comments

  1. Sue Harvey
    March 10, 2017 / 10:22 am

    Beautiful, just like you xxxx

  2. March 10, 2017 / 5:45 pm

    This is a really great post Kenzie, you have achieved so much and should feel proud. I would tell my teenage self to not take my body for granted so much and be proud of my gymnastic and dance achievements because the body will let me down. I might do this post myself if you don’t mind? I will of course credit you my lovely xxxx

    • kenzie
      Author
      March 12, 2017 / 5:41 pm

      Thank you so much lovely! you should 100% be proud of your achievements they are so important and the small victories in life are I think the most important as they really add up. Oh I would love you too it would be great to read yours! The process of writing it was really quite therapeutic xxxx

  3. Cass
    March 11, 2017 / 1:12 am

    Such a beautiful post and a lovely way to reflect back on the past. I love the outfit by the way, those boots have my name on them!

    Cass | CassandraMyee

  4. March 11, 2017 / 12:13 pm

    Amazing idea for a post! I absolutely love those boots, they’re stunning! xxx

  5. Antonia
    March 11, 2017 / 9:58 pm

    Loved this post and the pictures as always, stunning. Xxx

  6. Roxie Watt
    March 13, 2017 / 10:59 am

    This was such a beautifully written piece. You’ve come so far and should be so proud of what you have already achieved xx

  7. March 14, 2017 / 9:38 am

    Love this post and your outfit choice – spot on! x

  8. March 14, 2017 / 3:21 pm

    This was a great idea for a post. I love the metallic heal!

    • kenzie
      Author
      March 15, 2017 / 11:11 am

      Thank you so much xx

  9. March 14, 2017 / 10:36 pm

    I really enjoyed reading this post, you should definitely be proud of your achievements. I am absolutely in love with your boots too that I couldn’t not mention them.

    Kristy | http://www.thevioletblonde.com

    • kenzie
      Author
      March 15, 2017 / 11:07 am

      Thank you so much! They are rather lovely I just love the heel xx

  10. April 2, 2017 / 1:18 pm

    I loved reading this! WOW what I would tell my teenage self?! Probably first and foremost would be to appreciate my parents and spend as much time with them as possible x

  11. April 10, 2017 / 3:34 pm

    Aw I love this! So cute how you organized this. I wish I could tell my 16 year old self to not worry about other girls so much and just do my own thing!

  12. January 9, 2019 / 8:40 pm

    I’m pretty grateful for my own teenage moments. Really enjoying your blog n love your outfit! ❤

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